The POSH way of living
At some point or other people tend to disappoint us.
One reason for it can be our expectations. May be we are expecting a lot from
someone who isn't capable to fulfill even 1% of it. We all suffer, everyone
thinks that they are the one who is 100% committed in every detail of a
relationship but is it the truth? If YES, then why is the other person
suffering and complaining. It is rightly said, "har kahani ke do pehlu
hote hai" and for a balance in life one must understand both of
these.
"What can we do?" is a question that most
people face in such situations. Well personally, I have come up with a solution
and its all about focusing on yourself rather that setting the bar for everyone
else. Don't expect anyone to fulfil your wishes. So what, they didn't wish you
Happy Birthday, they left you out while hanging out with other friends or they
didn't support you when you were going through your hard times. Every
moment is a 'phase' of time which will pass soon and the moment you get
over it, you will find yourself the most outgoing and confident person alive.
They will say sorry, you have complete rights to make them aware of their
mistakes, but don't rethink about your decisions. NO REGETS- says my rule book.
"You only live once" everyone enchants. So
don't waste your time on thinking about people who don't care. You are self-sufficient
and a combination of those sets of genes which can be barely completely
duplicated (naturally), so yeah you are literally UNIQUE. It’s their loss not
yours. Everyone is going to meet thousands of new people ahead why to
waste energy on those who barely matter.
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